A few thoughts

Ok so I wanted to write a bit about who I actually am. Some of My views on things.

Internet perception

Well I guess Its really hard to truly understand someone if you have never meet them, to gauge there full personality, the reasoning behind who they are and how they mean things when they say them. I thing sometimes my Internet personality can be taken completely wrong. I am blonde hair blue eyes, I like things that are faminin, make up, hair, nails. What does this equal out to. People thinking I am unintelligent, I am most definitely not. I have alot of view on things, I have alot of Ideas. I don't speak in a unintelligent voice, neither am I posh. The question is do women have to change there image to be taken seriously? Should I cave in to society's demand for intelligent people to be unattractive or uncaring of there image. No. I refuse to, I refuse to get ride of my blonde hair and not add make up to my face. I enjoy taking time and effort in these things. The thing that needs to change is not me, its society's oppressive view, many people will sit there and think that i am wrong that society does not do this to our intelligent or attractive women, but it does if only sub consciously. I read an article today about vajazzaling. Some thing I will never quit understand myself, but each to there own, but the question was can you be a feminist and still vajazzel a d one women said no you can't. As why would any one subject there self to sticking gravel down there pants. But surely if a women found that attractive then by doing it there surely liberating themselves by doing something they want to do, surely going against what you want to do is being oppressed and there for none feminist!

I never claim to be a feminist, I don't stand in the streets screaming women's rights, but my very feminist friend said yes I was as i am an independent female, meaning I run my own business, I do not rely on my husband and I do very much believe women are in fact equals. I guess I'm just not a extremist.

Also another perception I wanted to talk about Is that of Pole Dancers. Now If been very forgiving with he words I have used as so are others. People think I am a pole dancer and I guess I am if you think of it in the sense of yes I dance on a pole, but when people say this they don't mean it in the way I mean it. The mean I am a stripper, or pole dancing instructor which means I teach stripping and I am neither. I am a Fitness Pole Dancing instructor. They are very different things. I have or will never take my clothes off for money, If people want to that is up to them, but it interests me in absolutely no way what so ever. I use Pole dancing in a artistic, gymnastic, acrobatic, performance, dance. I in no way shimmy or shake, I string long sequences of gravity defying moves together in a perfectly seamless dance. I have muscles that these unintelligible people could never dream of or in fact know exist.

One person even had the cheek to say 'So, she knew she was living on borrowed time and chose to do something as meaningless as a pole dance instructor with her life? I'd do something more worthwhile than work with strippers ' Here was my response

What a constructive comment. How ignorant of you, let along presumptuous and rude. How dare you judge me, a judgement that is indeed completely incorrect. I in no way teach strippers. I am a fitness pole dancing instructor, qualified and insured. Fitness pole dancing is a art form to be compared to gymnastics and the aerial arts. It requires huge skill and unbelievable muscle tone. I have muscles in places you knew never existed. I not only teach fitness pole dancing, but i am studying my exercise to music course to teach other fitness class's, i run a great deal of campaigns in England for organ donation with Live Life Then Give Life charity as an advocate for them. I also run fund raising events and many media stunts. I believe I have lived my life to the fullest and have done things you will never be able to comprehend at the age of only 22. When I meet my maker there will be no question of whether my life has been meaningful. I know I have saved 1000 if not millions of lives with my campaigning. What have you done that's so great, that leads you to look down your nose with your preconceived ideas?
This morning I woke up knowing I have made a difference, Surely you must be amazing your self to make such a statement? No?

I know this reply could come across as arrogant, but I do know that 1000 of people have signed up after reading or watching my story, so I guess I'm going to go with correct rather than arrogant. Part of me has almost stopped caring what people think, but I am a people pleaser, I have a part of me that has to be liked by people, more in the way of I don't like people misconstruing who I am and the things I say, but a few criticisms that seem to be based on the same idea have had me thinking do I actually care anymore. Perhaps I am not meant to be liked, but I am still making a difference and that is all that matters. Sometime the people who change the world for the better weren't always the first in the popularity contest?

So what am I trying to say? I guess the overall message is I am not thick and I'm not a stripper and yes I do like to be liked but if I'm not well tough.

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